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31: QUANTUM RELATIONS

Welcome to the 31st post in our Journey in Dialog. Laura Berman, Ph.D., is a relationship educator and therapist, the founder and Director of the Berman Institute in Chicago, and Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry and Obstetrics/Gynecology at the Feinberg School of Medicine at Northwestern University.

In an interview published in Evolving Magazine: A Guide for Conscious Living, Dr. Berman shared her views about the following topic: “Quantum Love: Use Your Body’s Atomic Energy to Create the Relationship You Desire.”

I affirm that all relationships reflect qualities of love. Berman says that quantum love “comes when you consciously harness the atomic energy in your body to work for your relationship rather than against it.”

“At our core, we are pure atomic energy. The research happening in the field of Quantum Physics is demonstrating that we are all energetically connected, and our emotional states affect the energy within and around our bodies, impacting our partner and our relationship.”

When our moods affect one another, this is Quantum Physics at work. We feel one another’s energetic states. “Some energetic states are lower frequency and tend to create less desirable results in your relationship, and others are higher frequency and have more positive impact.”

Berman describes a frequency that conveys negative responses and one that conveys the potential for positive relationships. In the latter one, “Your heart, mind and spirit are in energetic synchrony, and you are having a substantive and positive effect on your partner and relationship without having to actually do anything.”

She says that our energetic frequencies are constantly expanding toward and from the positive. The key, she says, is to practice staying in the higher frequency states. Berman affirms that when we consciously attend to our body’s energetic states and harness that power, it takes our relationships to new heights.

She reminds us that where our attention goes, energy flows. The lens through which we view one another dictates the emotions we have toward one another and the energetic frequency we hold around one another. “This is Quantum Physics at work,” affirms Berman.

“From an energetic perspective, open heartedness is also known as coherence. This is a measurable state where the electromagnetic pulses of your brain and your heart come into synchrony.” That is when we are in a positive relationship zone.

Can you identify with what Berman is saying?
If so, what difference might this perspective make in your relationships?

PS: Danah Zohar has written about the quantum self, the quantum society and more. In an interview reported in “Leverage Points,” a publication of Pegasus Communications, she adds an interesting note to Berman’s “Quantum Love.”

“Quantum systems,” in our brains, said Zohar, “are thought to be concretized balls of energy that take on different forms as they relate to each other through participating in the system together. When two quantum systems meet, they overlap and combine their total identity. All the patterns of dynamic energy within these systems change dramatically in relation to each other, leading to the emergence of a whole new thing that is greater than the sum of its parts.”

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